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Preserving Yourself As Single


The act of preservation is an essential that most single in this generation have neglected. Nations/ countries preserve their heritage because they want to be able to tell the upcoming generation about their history or stories. Same way a single who wants to have a glorious tomorrow must keep it together to enjoy and maximize the future destined for him or her.

To preserve is to protect – your body, your spirituality, health, honor, your beliefs.

To preserve is to keep alive – for no one wants to associate with a dead thing or person no matter the depth of Love. So, if you become reckless abandon with your life and kill yourself while standing, you cannot be alive for your God ordained partner or spouse.

To preserve is to sustain – everyone at one point or the other needs sustainability. Somebody, one day told me of her plans. She was about to close down a viable venture for another thing entirely. The first question I asked her is what will be your sustainability, if she closes the venture. But she could not give me a definite answer. She closed down; what was not viable for her, but is sustaining another person today. Why, the spirit of preservation was long dead.

The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 6: 13. “Meats for the belly, and the belly for meats; but God shall destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body. 14. And God hath both raised up the Lord, and will also raise up us by his own power. 15. Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid. 16. What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? For two saith he, shall be one flesh. 17. But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit. 18. Flee fornication. Every sin that a man does is without the body; but he that commits fornication is sinning against his own body. 19. What? Know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? 20. For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s.”

You are single and waiting for your bone of bone and flesh of flesh then you cannot use your body for fornication. Your cannot be defile- remember this, for every sex outside marriage you engage in a part of you have gone with that sex mate. Lets say you are living now in Ethiopia and your former sex mate is in China a part of you is seating either way until you seek for mercy and pray for God to gather back all your fragments. So having sex outside of marriage, is lack of knowledge; because it has covenanted you to your sex mate. Many a times you don’t marry that person, then you remain fragmented.

This is the reason many seem to find it difficult to settle and if they happen to settle, it becomes a total war zone where the past comes hunting on the persons today. You must know that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost , hence the need for preservation

A preserve man or woman glorify God in the body and spirit on a daily basis. I challenge you today to live a life of preservation for it pays. As many as are reading this piece and feel they have been fragmented pray the below prayer after you are repented.


O God gather me back from where my life has been fragmented to in Jesus name.

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