Divorce Is no Option

Divorce Is Not The Answer

Recently in August of 2019 I happened to be in the court. I went there for a different reason all together, and I am someone that hates the court for I believe in dialogue. As I was sitting there in the court room, within the space of 2 to 3 hours the cases before the court where all divorce proceedings. Within this time over 20 marriages had been annulled. I was the only one in the court room feeling so bad and all dejected. And I began to wonder in all the courts all over the world how many marriages has been annulled that day only. I challenge myself to stand in the gap and pray for there is definitely something wrong with the society.

The bible says “The Lord God of Israel , says, I hate divorce, and I hate the cruel things that men do. So protect your spiritual unity. Don’t cheat on your wife.”(Malachi 2:16). Then the question is how can man love what God hates? There will be consequences, for we are program for success but now we are going against the wishes of our programmer.

There is a way out other than divorce. You can still remain in that marriage, by stepping back to the position of prayer. But still committed to the vows of marriage and make it work. Psalms 11:3 says “If the foundation be destroyed, what can the righteous do?” The righteous is to pray and look for workable solutions to kill the giant confronting the marriage. What you need to understand about divorce is, it is beyond the two persons involve. If there be children in that marriage by divorcing you have automatically put them under a curse that will run from generation except they wake up and pray to brake the circle.

Why make them pass through it in the first place, before they will even pray. Some will say, we are saved by grace so therefore the children cannot or will not be affected. Yes we are saved by grace, but when you owe the bank and you go to another bank to open an account it does not mean your debt in the first bank is automatically written off. You still have to pay, same way an unbroken curse, is still potent against its victim. There is a consequence for every action or decision one makes in life.

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  1. Indeed divorce is not the way out. Instead of people confronting their faints they run away from it. He will never go away until you confront, which means you will keep on running. Whatever did not allow you in the first will raise its ugly head in the second. So address it rather than jump ship.

    1. A product that does not follow the product manual will miss some useful advice on how the product works. Same way we cannot love what God hates, is working against the code of conduct of marriage.Thanks Ehi for your view point and hope to hear from you soon. Always check our blog because there is something for everyone.

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